77 episodes of honest conversations about faith, family, and the things people don't say out loud.
Are you bankrupting your own future to fix your parents' poor financial choices? You love them, but ‘honoring your parents’ doesn’t mean losing your autonomy. We’re unpacking how to set firm boundaries without the guilt and why your bank account is nobody’s business but your own. This is the conversation the community needs to have.
Churches used to talk about lust all the time. Now they don't — and PF has a theory about why. In this episode, PF, Esther, and Tunde tackle the conversation most pastors and podcasters won't touch: sexual desire, attraction, what both men and women are responsible for, and why being honest about biology doesn't make you a bad person.
This conversation gets heated in the best way. The crew unpacks what it actually means to be the church not a building, not a concert, not a social club but the body of Christ. PF argues that rejecting the church wholesale while claiming to follow Christ is a contradiction, and draws a sharp line between acceptance and tolerance that will challenge both sides of the debate.
Growing up in an African household often comes with strict, unwritten rules—don’t question authority, don’t challenge your parents, and always respect your elders. But what happens when you’re an adult living in a different culture and those expectations remain the same?
If you had a billion dollars, what would you do? PF's answer might surprise you — and then he flips the question entirely. In this episode, PF, Esther, Kenneth, and Tunde tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in Christian culture: how much money is actually enough? PF breaks down exactly what $1 million can cover (house, car, food, kids' tuition) and then asks why none of us would actually be satisfied with that. The conversation goes deeper than budgets. This is about contentment, gree
One word said casually, said a thousand times nearly broke a 10-year marriage. It wasn't cheating. It wasn't money. It was something most people say every day without thinking twice. In this episode, PF, Tunde, and Esther get into the small habits that quietly destroy marriages and the ones that quietly save them.
Should Christians still tithe? And why do people lose their minds when a pastor wears a nice watch?
In this unfiltered conversation, the crew tackles the gender roles debate head-on: Why are men emotionally unavailable? Why do women want men to cry... but also find it "cringy"? And why are we surprised by the exact people WE raised? Pastor Femi makes a bold argument: Stop blaming individuals. Blame the assembly line. The men you're frustrated with? Your mothers raised them. The women with "chips on their shoulders"? Your mothers raised them too.
This Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage.
Should you quit your job and chase your passion? Not so fast. Pastor Femi unpacks why passion and purpose aren't the same thing—and why confusing them could have you chasing the wrong thing your whole life. PF shares the 5 clues to finding your actual purpose, gets real about what to do when your passion doesn't pay the bills, and reveals the pivotal moment God asked him: "Who sets your salary me or them?" Plus: A gratitude challenge that will transform your faith by the end of 2026. In this epi
Welcome to Season 4 of PF Unfiltered! We're kicking off the year with a conversation about the elephant in the room: why your New Year resolutions are probably already collecting dust. This isn't just another motivational podcast telling you to "work harder" or "manifest your dreams." This is an honest, biblically grounded conversation about the real reason most people don't achieve their goals and it's not what you think. Pastor Femi breaks down the hard truth: if you're not finding a way to ge
In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and faith. They emphasize the need for intentionality in setting goals for 2026 and the significance of seeking God personally rather than relying solely on external guidance. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern community dynamics, particularly in the context of social media, and the necessity of building genuine relationshi
Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you. In this episode, PF breaks down 1 Corinthians 8 "idols are nothing" and explains why Christmas shouldn't be the scapegoat for pseudo-spirituality. The crew explores Christian freedom, why believers judge each other over holidays, and how we major in the minors while missing what actually matters. From debating turkey wings as Christmas foo
"If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear the full conversation. Young people are leaving church in record numbers—especially African immigrants and diaspora Christians who grew up in the faith. Pastor Femi, Kenneth, and Esther tackle why this is happening and whether walking away is actually the answer.
In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew tackles the hardest kind of gratitude - being thankful when life isn't going according to plan. Discover how our hosts navigate family traditions, personal growth, and the transformative power of community. Whether you're a fan of turkey or prefer jollof rice, this conversation will inspire you to find your own reasons to be thankful. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that celebrates the essence of Thanksgiving.
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF sits down with Dami and Lolade Akibola, an incredible couple to discuss one of the most challenging aspects of marriage: MONEY!!. If you've ever wondered how to handle finances as a married couple, especially when cultural expectations clash with modern realities, this conversation is essential. Dami and Lolade share their journey from college students with completely different money mindsets to building a strong financial partnership. Lolade grew up hyper-aw
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences with depression, the impact of faith and community, and practical ways to manage mental health during difficult times. The conversation also highlights the difference between happiness and joy, the importance of purpose, and practical activities that can provide mental rest. This episode aims to offer viewers insights and tools to address
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and the United States. They explore the perceptions each country's Christian community has of the other, the cultural and societal influences on faith, and the varying emphases on religious activities. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining genuine faith amidst differing societal demands, materialism, and the transactional na
In this episode PF gets candid about almost breaking under the weight of perfection, how performing perfection nearly cost him his peace and how honesty, grace, and purpose pulled him back, first-born vs last-born pressure, and why the Holy Spirit not the timeline should set your pace.
What does it mean to have boundaries as a Christian? In this episode, PF Unfiltered explores how fear, insecurity, and people-pleasing often keep us from saying no. The crew tackles boundaries in relationships, money, church life, and work with biblical wisdom and real-life stories. Learn why confidence in God (not just self-help tips) is the foundation for healthy limits.
In this unfiltered conversation, Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde flip the script on red flags — and dive deep into what green flags really look like in relationships, friendships, and faith.
Ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re called to become? In this episode, Pastor Wale Adenuga shares why he stepped down after 8 years of pastoring, the lessons behind his most famous song, and why contentment not performance is the heart of faith. Expect laughter, raw honesty, and hard truths about church culture, leadership, and transition.
From wig lace and too much makeup to love bombing and selfish friendships, the PF Unfiltered crew dives into the petty and the serious signs you shouldn’t ignore. Expect laughs, cultural banter, and biblical wisdom on spotting red flags in dating, friendships, and beyond.
How do we disagree without blowing up the relationship? In this lively PF Unfiltered episode, PF, Esther, and T dig into real-life conflict: tone vs. words, listening to understand (not to clap back), “agree to disagree,” switching churches over style, being friends with exes, and the spicy liquor-store question for Christians. Also: the eternal debate… pineapple on pizza 🍍🍕.
Should pastors and worship leaders get paid—or should ministry always be free? In this first episode of the new season of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the real talk around money, ministry, and the Bible. From “don’t muzzle the ox” to the controversy of pastors with private jets, PF and the crew break down what Scripture actually says, share personal stories, and keep it 100 about church finances, value, and stewardship.
What would PF do if God gave him just one week? Hear his honest, heartfelt answer—alongside hilarious banter, some sandwich betrayal, and lessons on staying connected to the Body of Christ.
They barely knew each other. “The Lord said...” turned into “We’re pregnant” on day one. In this hilarious yet sobering episode, the crew and Guest, Pastor AK dive into the chaos that unfolds when couples skip friendship, rush into marriage, and let pressure or prophecy drive their decisions. Real talk. Real laughs. Always unfiltered.
In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode, PF sits down with Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Abi Matesun (Malekfotos) to unpack the tension between control, creativity, and surrender to God. From childhood in Nigeria to global success in storytelling, they explore how dependence on God not ambition fuels true excellence.
In a time when America feels divided, chaotic, and uncertain, one truth remains: God is still speaking. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into how believers can stay grounded in faith while navigating political storms and cultural confusion.
From ancestral altars to pop culture trends, we unpack the truth about witchcraft—what it really means biblically, how it shows up today, and why it’s more than broomsticks and black cats. Is it harmless, or spiritual warfare in disguise and how believers can discern the difference? This Episode is Sponsored by Mama Mary’s All-Purpose Seasoning! 🎉 Mama Mary’s is the Nigerian spice blend that makes every meal easier, tastier, and more affordable. Packed with essentials like onion, garlic, curry,
In this powerful episode of PF Unfiltered, we sit with the tension of unanswered prayers and the emotional weight they leave behind. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and scriptural truth, we reveal how God’s love and faithfulness are not always revealed in answered prayers but often in the process of waiting, growing, and surrendering. We also discuss the difference between asking and demanding, and how God’s “no” might actually be His best “yes” in disguise. This episode isn’t abo
In Part 2 of our PF Unfiltered conversation, we pick up where we left off—taking the boundary talk even deeper. This time, we’re unpacking how past experiences, church teachings, and societal pressures shape the way we date and love today. What happens when boundaries are too rigid—or too loose? How do we navigate grace, temptation, and accountability in a world that glorifies self over sacrifice? This episode is raw, honest, and necessary for anyone trying to walk the line between faithfulness
Dating in today's world can feel like a tug-of-war between faith and culture. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we're breaking down what real boundaries look like in relationships inside the church and out in society. Are we honoring God or just following trends? Are our standards protecting us or holding us back? It's time for an honest conversation that challenges both comfort zones and convictions.
In this heartfelt and no-fluff episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew dives headfirst into the big question: Do we truly love God? We wrestle with the tension between morality vs. righteousness, obedience vs. grace, and the true definition of love as laid out in Scripture. From cultural norms to Christ’s finished work, whether you’ve been walking with God for years or you’re just trying to figure it out, this episode is a reminder that only in Christ can we truly be right with God. It’s deep, challe
What do you do when you're on a bus with no destination? PF Unfiltered dives into deep spiritual and practical questions from our listeners — from financial wisdom to relationship red flags, and from growing in faith to leadership in ministry.
When digital boundaries get blurred, do you delete the DMs or reevaluate the whole relationship? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the sticky gray areas of online communication, emotional cheating, and the real implications of keeping secrets. The crew unpacks a lot of questions, raw, insightful, and peppered with humor.
Why do we judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intentions? We explore the real meaning of love through biblical lens, mental gymnastics, and relationship audits. This one might sting—but in the best way.
You asked for $500. God gave you $250. Are you still grateful? In this episode, Esther and Pastor Femi explore how entitlement can blind us to answered prayers. Using raw personal experiences and powerful biblical truths, they challenge us to reframe our perspective on gratitude — and rediscover our faith in the process.
Pastor Femi Omotayo sits down with Praise Fowowe @iampraisefowowe for a deep conversation on childhood trauma, personal transformation, and the role of family systems in shaping identity. Together, they explore how culture, psychology, and faith intersect to influence relationships and healing. This raw and unfiltered discussion sheds light on breaking generational cycles and building healthier connections.
In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to truly know Christ and follow Him. From personal transformation to the struggle of letting go of material wealth, we explore the biblical story of the rich young ruler and how it relates to us today. What are we holding onto that prevents us from fully embracing Christ?
Pastor Agu Irukwu opens up about the loss of his first wife, Ife, and how he navigated one of life’s most challenging storms. He shares how his unshakable belief in God's love, strong community, and understanding of life and death helped him endure. This heartfelt conversation offers wisdom on resilience, faith, and healing.
I never thought I’d be in this situation... Desperate for help, but the only person offering is someone I know I shouldn't accept it from. We had tension, we cut things off, but now he’s back, disguised as 'Bible study.' What would you do in my shoes? Let's talk about it.
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we discuss whether platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter are ruining our walk with God or if they can actually be used as tools to spread the gospel. Are we consuming too much worldly content and losing sight of our values? Or are we leveraging social media the right way? Let’s talk about it! Drop your thoughts in the comments!
Have you ever had a moment where danger was so close, you could feel it breathing down your neck? A moment where everything seemed lost—until God stepped in?
Are we unintentionally worshiping the gift over the Giver? This episode challenges listeners to reflect on their priorities.
In this candid and thought-provoking episode, PF dives deep into the misconceptions and challenges surrounding marriage in today’s world, particularly within the West African community. From the dangers of prioritizing material wealth over character to the spiritual and practical wisdom required for a successful marriage, this discussion unpacks the truths often overlooked in the pursuit of ‘the perfect spouse.’ Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers invaluable insights t
In this candid and thought-provoking episode, PF dives deep into the misconceptions and challenges surrounding marriage in today’s world, particularly within the West African community. From the dangers of prioritizing material wealth over character to the spiritual and practical wisdom required for a successful marriage, this discussion unpacks the truths often overlooked in the pursuit of ‘the perfect spouse.’ Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers invaluable insights t
Happy New Year! PF Unfiltered kicks off 2025 with a deep dive into faith, forgiveness, and salvation. Is salvation permanent? Are we saved by works or grace? What does it mean to truly abide in Christ? Join us as we unpack these questions, challenge religious mindsets, and explore the freedom that comes with living by grace. This episode is all about renewing your mind, reevaluating your faith, and embracing God’s love in the new year.
Happy New Year! PF Unfiltered kicks off 2025 with a deep dive into faith, forgiveness, and salvation. Is salvation permanent? Are we saved by works or grace? What does it mean to truly abide in Christ? Join us as we unpack these questions, challenge religious mindsets, and explore the freedom that comes with living by grace.
What does it mean to walk in faith and operate in spiritual gifts? In this episode, we discuss reflections on 2024, aspirations for 2025, and the importance of cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. With humor, honesty, and scripture-based insights, we explore spiritual gifts, prayer, and practical ways to align with God’s purpose as we step into the new year.
What does it mean to walk in faith and operate in spiritual gifts? In this episode, we discuss reflections on 2024, aspirations for 2025, and the importance of cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. With humor, honesty, and scripture-based insights, we explore spiritual gifts, prayer, and practical ways to align with God’s purpose as we step into the new year.
In this heartfelt episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the joys and challenges of the Christmas season. We explore the beauty and complexity of friendships—how they evolve over time, the value of inter-generational relationships, and the lessons learned from conflict and reconciliation. Plus, we discuss the importance of building authentic community, embracing our humanity, and developing a deeper, more personal friendship with God.
In this heartfelt episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the joys and challenges of the Christmas season. We explore the beauty and complexity of friendships—how they evolve over time, the value of inter-generational relationships, and the lessons learned from conflict and reconciliation. Plus, we discuss the importance of building authentic community, embracing our humanity, and developing a deeper, more personal friendship with God.
In a world that glorifies hustle and busyness, how do we make room for rest? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF and Esther dive deep into what true rest looks like – not just for your body, but for your mind and soul. They explore why trusting God is central to experiencing real rest and how worrying can keep us trapped in a cycle of exhaustion. From personal stories to practical insights (including PF’s surprising love for baking), this conversation will challenge you to rethink how you appro
In this heartfelt episode, PF sits down with Luke Brendling, an international preacher, to discuss grief, faith, and finding hope in the valleys of life. Luke shares his journey through the loss of his daughter, how he and his wife leaned on God and each other, and the lessons learned through pain. This conversation is a reminder that even in life’s hardest moments, God’s love sustains us and offers peace in the storm. Tune in for encouragement and practical wisdom for navigating life’s challeng
In this heartfelt episode, PF sits down with Luke Brendling, an international preacher, to discuss grief, faith, and finding hope in the valleys of life. Luke shares his journey through the loss of his daughter, how he and his wife leaned on God and each other, and the lessons learned through pain. This conversation is a reminder that even in life’s hardest moments, God’s love sustains us and offers peace in the storm. Tune in for encouragement and practical wisdom for navigating life’s challeng
In this unfiltered conversation, we tackle the tough topic of forgiveness—what it truly means, how to navigate boundaries, and how Christ’s example shapes our actions. Real, raw, and practical, this episode dives into grace, restoration, and living out forgiveness in the face of hurt.
In this unfiltered conversation, we tackle the tough topic of forgiveness—what it truly means, how to navigate boundaries, and how Christ’s example shapes our actions. Real, raw, and practical, this episode dives into grace, restoration, and living out forgiveness in the face of hurt.
Grief is a universal experience, yet it hits each of us differently. In this heartfelt episode, PF and the team delve into personal stories of loss, wrestling with questions about God’s goodness during pain, and finding comfort in faith. Whether you’ve experienced the loss of a loved one, a dream, or are walking with someone grieving, this conversation offers empathy, perspective, and hope. Tune in and be encouraged to lean on God and your community.
Grief is a universal experience, yet it hits each of us differently. In this heartfelt episode, PF and the team delve into personal stories of loss, wrestling with questions about God’s goodness during pain, and finding comfort in faith. Whether you’ve experienced the loss of a loved one, a dream, or are walking with someone grieving, this conversation offers empathy, perspective, and hope. Tune in and be encouraged to lean on God and your community.
In this revealing season finale Q&A, PF tackles your toughest questions head-on. From challenging the notion of earthly ambitions to exploring the true meaning of happiness, this episode offers a raw and unfiltered look at what really matters in light of eternity. Don't miss this intimate glimpse into PF's personal reflections as we wrap up Season 1!
In this revealing season finale Q&A, PF tackles your toughest questions head-on. From challenging the notion of earthly ambitions to exploring the true meaning of happiness, this episode offers a raw and unfiltered look at what really matters in light of eternity. Don't miss this intimate glimpse into PF's personal reflections as we wrap up Season 1!
Dive deep into the heart of Christian love as PF and the crew tackle the challenging standards set in 1 Corinthians 13. In this raw and honest episode, they confront the gap between the ideal of love and the reality of our daily lives. Discover why striving harder isn't the answer and how grace through Christ is the key to experiencing true love and freedom. Whether you're feeling trapped by religious rules or struggling to live up to impossible standards, this unfiltered conversation offers a f
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive deep into the journey of breaking free from religious chains and rediscovering the true essence of love and faith. Are we bound by tradition, or are we walking in true spiritual freedom? It’s time to challenge the norms, break free from fear-based doctrines, and embrace a faith that’s real, raw, and unfiltered. Let’s talk about it!
In this episode, PF and the crew tackle the complex world of parenting across generations. From strict Nigerian upbringings to modern challenges, they explore how cultural norms shape our approach to raising children and our own self-worth. Whether you're a parent, hoping to become one, or simply reflecting on your own upbringing, this episode offers powerful insights on fostering confidence, contentment, and genuine relationships in the next generation.
In this episode, PF and the crew tackle the complex world of parenting across generations. From strict Nigerian upbringings to modern challenges, they explore how cultural norms shape our approach to raising children and our own self-worth. Whether you're a parent, hoping to become one, or simply reflecting on your own upbringing, this episode offers powerful insights on fostering confidence, contentment, and genuine relationships in the next generation.
Dive into a thought-provoking exploration of commonly misunderstood Bible verses with PF and the crew. In this unfiltered episode, we peel back layers of popular scriptures to reveal their true meanings in context. From challenging the idea that Christianity should be a constant struggle to examining the dangers of transactional faith, we tackle misconceptions head-on. Whether you're a seasoned Bible scholar or just starting your faith journey, this episode promises to challenge your perspective
Dive into a thought-provoking exploration of commonly misunderstood Bible verses with PF and the crew. In this unfiltered episode, we peel back layers of popular scriptures to reveal their true meanings in context. From challenging the idea that Christianity should be a constant struggle to examining the dangers of transactional faith, we tackle misconceptions head-on. Whether you're a seasoned Bible scholar or just starting your faith journey, this episode promises to challenge your perspective
Dive into the controversial waters of marriage, singleness, and the church's role in it all with PF and the crew. In this unfiltered episode, we're tackling the tough questions head-on:
Dive into the controversial waters of marriage, singleness, and the church's role in it all with PF and the crew. In this unfiltered episode, we're tackling the tough questions head-on:
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF, Tunde, and Seun tackle the profound question: Is the Bible truly the Word of God? PF shares personal insights on faith, the purpose of our relationship with God, and the Bible’s role in our spiritual journey. They explore misconceptions around comfort and spiritual disciplines, challenging listeners to reflect on their own faith. Are we seeking a genuine relationship with Christ, or just checking boxes? Join this engaging conversation to redefine your unders
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF delves into the essence of faith, addressing the question: Are we truly living by faith or merely masking our fear as faith? This conversation will challenge you to reflect on your own faith journey and encourage you to deepen your relationship with God. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts with us on social media!
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive deep into the topic of fear and its impact on our lives. Join us as we explore the nature of fear, its causes, and how it can both motivate and deter us. PF shares personal anecdotes and biblical insights, offering a fresh perspective on how to confront and overcome fear. We discuss the importance of trusting God’s plan and understanding the finished work of Christ to truly break free from the chains of fear. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that
Join us in this thought-provoking episode as PF delves into the often debated topic of secularism in the church. We explore the impact of secular music, media, and activities on our spiritual journey and discuss how to find a balance between enjoying the world’s offerings and maintaining a strong, sincere relationship with God. Tune in to gain insights on how to navigate these influences without compromising your faith. 🎵🌍🕊️
In this candid episode of PF Unfiltered, PF tackles the complex topics of wealth, faith, and authenticity in the church. He shares personal insights and addresses misconceptions about money in ministry, offering a balanced perspective on stewardship and generosity. Whether you're curious about the prosperity gospel or seeking guidance on faith and finances, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and real-life applications.
PF tackles one of the most polarizing topics in the church: the relationship between pastors and money. Addressing common misconceptions, PF discusses why wealth and faith are not mutually exclusive, the true meaning of prosperity, and the human side of pastoral leadership. Delve into candid conversations about societal expectations, the prosperity gospel, and the balance between material success and spiritual integrity. Join us for a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges stereotypes and of
In this episode of “PF Unfiltered,” PF delves into the importance of authenticity in spiritual leadership. He shares his journey, discussing the balance between being real and fulfilling pastoral duties. We explore mental health, faith, and the true essence of being a pastor. Tune in for unfiltered conversations that reveal the human side of spiritual leadership and offer practical insights for navigating life. 🌍🗣️📖