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79 episodes of honest conversations about faith, family, and the things people don't say out loud.

Season 5 premiered September 22. Start with The Heart Of Service.

EP 79Sep 22 · 42 MIN

The Heart Of Service

Everybody says they want to serve so why does modern church so often feel like a room full of people just watching? Season 5 is back, and Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde get honest about what SERVICE actually looks like when no one's watching. This isn't a lecture on volunteering. It's a real conversation about rest without guilt, why "doing nothing" can be harder than working, and how serving inside a community is where faith actually grows roots.

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EP 78Jul 21 · 1H 01M

Why Dating “Potential” Is Ruining Christian Relationships

What happens when someone checks all your boxes… but still isn’t right for you? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF and the crew respond to real audience questions on relationships, singleness, sex, purity, marriage, fear, standards, and the confusion a lot of Christians carry into modern dating. This conversation goes straight at unequally yoked relationships, why “boxes” can become walls, why fear disguises itself as standards, why some people are not looking for love but for a resume, and how Christians keep approaching marriage like they’re hiring staff instead of building a life with…

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EP 77Jul 13 · 44 MIN

Are You Following Christ Or Just Waiting For A Miracle?

Where did miracles go? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF tackles one of the biggest questions many Christians quietly ask: why does it feel like we don’t see miracles the way people talk about them in Acts, revival stories, or old-school church culture? But the real answer is sharper than most people expect.

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EP 76Jul 8 · 45 MIN

We Look To Apple To Define iPhones, But We Won't Let God Define Us

Who are you, really? Not your job title, not your bank account, not your relationship status. If all of that disappeared tomorrow, what's left? In this episode, PF, Rosalyn, and Kenneth get honest about the identity crisis most Christians won't talk about and why the answer isn't just quoting "fearfully and wonderfully made" in the mirror. PF breaks down why we let everyone except God define us, why men tie their worth to money and women tie theirs to marriage, and what happens when the things we've built our identity on inevitably change.

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EP 75Jul 4 · 38 MIN

What If Babylon Is The System You’re Living In?

What if Babylon isn’t just a Bible story, a government, or a corrupt culture “out there” but the very system we’re all living in every day? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF, Roslyn, Kenneth, and Femi wrestle with one uncomfortable question: what does it really mean to be in the world but not of it? The conversation goes deep into Christianity, politics, capitalism, religion, work, voting, profit, compromise, and why so many believers keep confusing Christ with systems that were never built on love. PF argues that Babylon is bigger than politics. Bigger than Democrats and Republicans.

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EP 72May 19 · 37 MIN

Why Your "Perfect" Life Feels So EMPTY

Feeling like your life is on autopilot? You're not depressed you're just living the life your parents prayed for. Stop chasing artificial highs. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF breaks down why our generation is obsessed with constant stimulation and why that "meh" feeling isn't a medical emergency, but a spiritual opportunity. This conversation unpacks the trap of immediate gratification, why boredom can actually be a blessing, and how to build spiritual muscle before the next storm hits.

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EP 71May 12 · 44 MIN

Are Men Being Asked to Be Vulnerable or Set Up to Regret It?

Why do so many men struggle to be emotionally available and why does vulnerability sometimes get punished instead of rewarded? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, Pastor Femi, Tunde, and Kenneth unpack men's mental health, emotional suppression, Christian masculinity, relationships, and the pressure many African Christian men feel to always be strong, silent, and 'man up.' They talk about vulnerability in marriage, cultural expectations, fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and why modern conversations about masculinity often miss the real issue. If you've ever wondered why men shut down…

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EP 70May 5 · 44 MIN

The Soft Life Gospel is a SCAM

Is the "soft life" actually a biblical promise or a dangerous prosperity scam? Pastor Femi unpacks the real cost of following Christ today. We love to scroll through aesthetics, but does the Bible actually teach a life free from struggle? In this episode we dismantle the "Soft Life" narrative — a modern, consumerist gospel that often leads believers to abandon their faith when real challenges hit. From the reality of the apostles to the trap of materialism, it's time to get honest about the cross.

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EP 68Apr 21 · 42 MIN

Why You Are Always STRESSED (Stop the Hustle)

Are you waking up with anxiety? You're not alone. If you're tired of chasing money, social status, and your parents dreams, it's time to audit your life. We are breaking down why your hustle mentality might be destroying your faith and why 'success' looks different than what society told you. It’s time to stop living for the approval of others and start living for the only One who matters.

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EP 67Apr 14 · 43 MIN

Why Your Prayers Aren't Working (And How to Fix It)

Are you shouting into the wind? Prayer isn't a magical performance or a production to impress God—it’s a conversation. We’re breaking down why many of us struggle to pray and exposing the religious theatre that keeps us from real intimacy with the Father. Stop acting and start connecting. Most Christians have been taught that prayer requires specific protocols, long sessions, and religious eloquence to be 'powerful.' Pastor Femi unmasks why these traditions often do more to make people relevant than to bring us closer to God.

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EP 66Apr 7 · 40 MIN

Honoring Parents Does NOT mean Bankrupting You

Are you bankrupting your own future to fix your parents' poor financial choices? You love them, but ‘honoring your parents’ doesn’t mean losing your autonomy. We’re unpacking how to set firm boundaries without the guilt and why your bank account is nobody’s business but your own. This is the conversation the community needs to have.

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EP 65Mar 31 · 44 MIN

Lust, Attraction and the Truth Nobody Says Out Loud

Churches used to talk about lust all the time. Now they don't — and PF has a theory about why. In this episode, PF, Esther, and Tunde tackle the conversation most pastors and podcasters won't touch: sexual desire, attraction, what both men and women are responsible for, and why being honest about biology doesn't make you a bad person.

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EP 64Mar 24 · 50 MIN

God's Chosen ones don't go to Church?

This conversation gets heated in the best way. The crew unpacks what it actually means to be the church not a building, not a concert, not a social club but the body of Christ. PF argues that rejecting the church wholesale while claiming to follow Christ is a contradiction, and draws a sharp line between acceptance and tolerance that will challenge both sides of the debate.

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EP 63Mar 17 · 56 MIN

Honor vs. Obey: What the Bible actually Says About Parents

Growing up in an African household often comes with strict, unwritten rules—don’t question authority, don’t challenge your parents, and always respect your elders. But what happens when you’re an adult living in a different culture and those expectations remain the same?

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EP 62Mar 10 · 43 MIN

How Much Money Is Enough? Contentment, Greed & What You Actually Need

If you had a billion dollars, what would you do? PF's answer might surprise you — and then he flips the question entirely. In this episode, PF, Esther, Kenneth, and Tunde tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in Christian culture: how much money is actually enough? PF breaks down exactly what $1 million can cover (house, car, food, kids' tuition) and then asks why none of us would actually be satisfied with that. The conversation goes deeper than budgets. This is about contentment, gree

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EP 61Mar 3 · 45 MIN

This One Habit Is Quietly Killing Your Marriage

One word said casually, said a thousand times nearly broke a 10-year marriage. It wasn't cheating. It wasn't money. It was something most people say every day without thinking twice. In this episode, PF, Tunde, and Esther get into the small habits that quietly destroy marriages and the ones that quietly save them.

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EP 59Feb 17 · 46 MIN

You Want Her to Cook, Clean, and Work 9-5? Are You Mad?

In this unfiltered conversation, the crew tackles the gender roles debate head-on: Why are men emotionally unavailable? Why do women want men to cry... but also find it "cringy"? And why are we surprised by the exact people WE raised? Pastor Femi makes a bold argument: Stop blaming individuals. Blame the assembly line. The men you're frustrated with? Your mothers raised them. The women with "chips on their shoulders"? Your mothers raised them too.

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EP 57Feb 3 · 52 MIN

Passion ≠ Purpose: Why Being Good at Something Doesn't Mean You Should Do It

Should you quit your job and chase your passion? Not so fast. Pastor Femi unpacks why passion and purpose aren't the same thing—and why confusing them could have you chasing the wrong thing your whole life. PF shares the 5 clues to finding your actual purpose, gets real about what to do when your passion doesn't pay the bills, and reveals the pivotal moment God asked him: "Who sets your salary me or them?" Plus: A gratitude challenge that will transform your faith by the end of 2026. In this epi

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EP 56Jan 27 · 49 MIN

Why Your New Year Goals Are Already Failing | Desire vs Discipline

Welcome to Season 4 of PF Unfiltered! We're kicking off the year with a conversation about the elephant in the room: why your New Year resolutions are probably already collecting dust. This isn't just another motivational podcast telling you to "work harder" or "manifest your dreams." This is an honest, biblically grounded conversation about the real reason most people don't achieve their goals and it's not what you think. Pastor Femi breaks down the hard truth: if you're not finding a way to ge

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EP 55Dec 30 · 44 MIN

What We Learned in 2025 & Why 2026 Won't Be Easy

In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and faith. They emphasize the need for intentionality in setting goals for 2026 and the significance of seeking God personally rather than relying solely on external guidance. The discussion also highlights the challenges of modern community dynamics, particularly in the context of social media, and the necessity of building genuine relationshi

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EP 54Dec 16 · 42 MIN

Should Christians celebrate Christmas?

Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you. In this episode, PF breaks down 1 Corinthians 8 "idols are nothing" and explains why Christmas shouldn't be the scapegoat for pseudo-spirituality. The crew explores Christian freedom, why believers judge each other over holidays, and how we major in the minors while missing what actually matters. From debating turkey wings as Christmas foo

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EP 53Dec 9 · 47 MIN

Why Young People Are Leaving Church (And How to Find Your Way Back)

"If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear the full conversation. Young people are leaving church in record numbers—especially African immigrants and diaspora Christians who grew up in the faith. Pastor Femi, Kenneth, and Esther tackle why this is happening and whether walking away is actually the answer.

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EP 52Nov 25 · 40 MIN

How to Be Thankful When Life Is a Mess

In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew tackles the hardest kind of gratitude - being thankful when life isn't going according to plan. Discover how our hosts navigate family traditions, personal growth, and the transformative power of community. Whether you're a fan of turkey or prefer jollof rice, this conversation will inspire you to find your own reasons to be thankful. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that celebrates the essence of Thanksgiving.

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EP 51Nov 18 · 58 MIN

The Money Fight Every Couple Has

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF sits down with Dami and Lolade Akibola, an incredible couple to discuss one of the most challenging aspects of marriage: MONEY!!. If you've ever wondered how to handle finances as a married couple, especially when cultural expectations clash with modern realities, this conversation is essential. Dami and Lolade share their journey from college students with completely different money mindsets to building a strong financial partnership. Lolade grew up hyper-aw

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EP 50Nov 4 · 48 MIN

Can Christians Be Depressed?

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences with depression, the impact of faith and community, and practical ways to manage mental health during difficult times. The conversation also highlights the difference between happiness and joy, the importance of purpose, and practical activities that can provide mental rest. This episode aims to offer viewers insights and tools to address

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EP 49Oct 28 · 53 MIN

Night Vigils & 401(k)s: How Place Shapes Our Faith

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and the United States. They explore the perceptions each country's Christian community has of the other, the cultural and societal influences on faith, and the varying emphases on religious activities. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining genuine faith amidst differing societal demands, materialism, and the transactional na

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EP 48Oct 21 · 44 MIN

The Pressure to Have It All Together

In this episode PF gets candid about almost breaking under the weight of perfection, how performing perfection nearly cost him his peace and how honesty, grace, and purpose pulled him back, first-born vs last-born pressure, and why the Holy Spirit not the timeline should set your pace.

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EP 47Oct 14 · 42 MIN

Confidence over Boundaries

What does it mean to have boundaries as a Christian? In this episode, PF Unfiltered explores how fear, insecurity, and people-pleasing often keep us from saying no. The crew tackles boundaries in relationships, money, church life, and work with biblical wisdom and real-life stories. Learn why confidence in God (not just self-help tips) is the foundation for healthy limits.

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EP 45Oct 1 · 57 MIN

Why I Left at the Peak w/Pastor Wale Adenuga

Ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re called to become? In this episode, Pastor Wale Adenuga shares why he stepped down after 8 years of pastoring, the lessons behind his most famous song, and why contentment not performance is the heart of faith. Expect laughter, raw honesty, and hard truths about church culture, leadership, and transition.

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EP 44Sep 23 · 44 MIN

Relationship Red Flags

From wig lace and too much makeup to love bombing and selfish friendships, the PF Unfiltered crew dives into the petty and the serious signs you shouldn’t ignore. Expect laughs, cultural banter, and biblical wisdom on spotting red flags in dating, friendships, and beyond.

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EP 43Sep 16 · 46 MIN

How to Disagree (Without Starting WWIII)

How do we disagree without blowing up the relationship? In this lively PF Unfiltered episode, PF, Esther, and T dig into real-life conflict: tone vs. words, listening to understand (not to clap back), “agree to disagree,” switching churches over style, being friends with exes, and the spicy liquor-store question for Christians. Also: the eternal debate… pineapple on pizza 🍍🍕.

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EP 42Sep 9 · 48 MIN

Should Pastors Get Paid?

Should pastors and worship leaders get paid—or should ministry always be free? In this first episode of the new season of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the real talk around money, ministry, and the Bible. From “don’t muzzle the ox” to the controversy of pastors with private jets, PF and the crew break down what Scripture actually says, share personal stories, and keep it 100 about church finances, value, and stewardship.

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EP 41Jul 1 · 1H 04M

If I Had One Week to Live…

What would PF do if God gave him just one week? Hear his honest, heartfelt answer—alongside hilarious banter, some sandwich betrayal, and lessons on staying connected to the Body of Christ.

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EP 40Jun 18 · 1H 09M

Pregnant on Day One

They barely knew each other. “The Lord said...” turned into “We’re pregnant” on day one. In this hilarious yet sobering episode, the crew and Guest, Pastor AK dive into the chaos that unfolds when couples skip friendship, rush into marriage, and let pressure or prophecy drive their decisions. Real talk. Real laughs. Always unfiltered.

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EP 39Jun 10 · 1H 09M

The Illusion of Control: Finding Excellence Through Surrender

In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode, PF sits down with Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Abi Matesun (Malekfotos) to unpack the tension between control, creativity, and surrender to God. From childhood in Nigeria to global success in storytelling, they explore how dependence on God not ambition fuels true excellence.

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EP 38Jun 4 · 1H 04M

America Is Shaking But God Is Still Speaking

In a time when America feels divided, chaotic, and uncertain, one truth remains: God is still speaking. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into how believers can stay grounded in faith while navigating political storms and cultural confusion.

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EP 37May 27 · 1H 03M

Witchcraft in the Modern World: Real or Ridiculous?

From ancestral altars to pop culture trends, we unpack the truth about witchcraft—what it really means biblically, how it shows up today, and why it’s more than broomsticks and black cats. Is it harmless, or spiritual warfare in disguise and how believers can discern the difference? This Episode is Sponsored by Mama Mary’s All-Purpose Seasoning! 🎉 Mama Mary’s is the Nigerian spice blend that makes every meal easier, tastier, and more affordable. Packed with essentials like onion, garlic, curry,

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EP 36May 13 · 1H 02M

The Truth Behind Unanswered Prayers

In this powerful episode of PF Unfiltered, we sit with the tension of unanswered prayers and the emotional weight they leave behind. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and scriptural truth, we reveal how God’s love and faithfulness are not always revealed in answered prayers but often in the process of waiting, growing, and surrendering. We also discuss the difference between asking and demanding, and how God’s “no” might actually be His best “yes” in disguise. This episode isn’t abo

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EP 35May 6 · 59 MIN

Boundaries Around Dating in the Church and in Society Today 2

In Part 2 of our PF Unfiltered conversation, we pick up where we left off—taking the boundary talk even deeper. This time, we’re unpacking how past experiences, church teachings, and societal pressures shape the way we date and love today. What happens when boundaries are too rigid—or too loose? How do we navigate grace, temptation, and accountability in a world that glorifies self over sacrifice? This episode is raw, honest, and necessary for anyone trying to walk the line between faithfulness

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EP 34Apr 29 · 53 MIN

Boundaries Around Dating in the Church and in Society Today

Dating in today's world can feel like a tug-of-war between faith and culture. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we're breaking down what real boundaries look like in relationships inside the church and out in society. Are we honoring God or just following trends? Are our standards protecting us or holding us back? It's time for an honest conversation that challenges both comfort zones and convictions.

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EP 33Apr 23 · 42 MIN

You Can’t Earn God’s Love—So Stop Trying

In this heartfelt and no-fluff episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew dives headfirst into the big question: Do we truly love God? We wrestle with the tension between morality vs. righteousness, obedience vs. grace, and the true definition of love as laid out in Scripture. From cultural norms to Christ’s finished work, whether you’ve been walking with God for years or you’re just trying to figure it out, this episode is a reminder that only in Christ can we truly be right with God. It’s deep, challe

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EP 31Apr 8 · 1H 01M

Delete the DMs, Delete the Marriage!!!

When digital boundaries get blurred, do you delete the DMs or reevaluate the whole relationship? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the sticky gray areas of online communication, emotional cheating, and the real implications of keeping secrets. The crew unpacks a lot of questions, raw, insightful, and peppered with humor.

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EP 30Apr 1 · 52 MIN

Conditional Love: Let’s Be Honest

Why do we judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intentions? We explore the real meaning of love through biblical lens, mental gymnastics, and relationship audits. This one might sting—but in the best way.

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EP 29Mar 25 · 53 MIN

The Danger of Forgetting What God Has Done

You asked for $500. God gave you $250. Are you still grateful? In this episode, Esther and Pastor Femi explore how entitlement can blind us to answered prayers. Using raw personal experiences and powerful biblical truths, they challenge us to reframe our perspective on gratitude — and rediscover our faith in the process.

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EP 28Mar 18 · 1H 03M

The Dark Side of Tradition: An Unfiltered Talk w/ Praise Fowowe @iampraisefowowe

Pastor Femi Omotayo sits down with Praise Fowowe @iampraisefowowe for a deep conversation on childhood trauma, personal transformation, and the role of family systems in shaping identity. Together, they explore how culture, psychology, and faith intersect to influence relationships and healing. This raw and unfiltered discussion sheds light on breaking generational cycles and building healthier connections.

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EP 27Mar 4 · 44 MIN

Letting Go to Follow Christ: What Are We Holding Onto?

In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to truly know Christ and follow Him. From personal transformation to the struggle of letting go of material wealth, we explore the biblical story of the rich young ruler and how it relates to us today. What are we holding onto that prevents us from fully embracing Christ?

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EP 26Feb 25 · 47 MIN

Faith in the Storm: Lessons on Resilience with Pastor Agu Irukwu

Pastor Agu Irukwu opens up about the loss of his first wife, Ife, and how he navigated one of life’s most challenging storms. He shares how his unshakable belief in God's love, strong community, and understanding of life and death helped him endure. This heartfelt conversation offers wisdom on resilience, faith, and healing.

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EP 24Feb 10 · 52 MIN

Is Social Media Ruining Our Faith as Christians?

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we discuss whether platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter are ruining our walk with God or if they can actually be used as tools to spread the gospel. Are we consuming too much worldly content and losing sight of our values? Or are we leveraging social media the right way? Let’s talk about it! Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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EP 22Jan 28 · 1H 04M

When Faith Meets Human Nature: Wrestling with Sin, Strength and Submission

In this episode, we dive into the intersections of faith, human nature, and the everyday challenges of relationships. From exploring the balance between strength and gentleness in a partner to wrestling with personal struggles, leadership, and submission, we tackle the complexities of navigating love and identity through the lens of faith. Real, raw, and unfiltered, this conversation sheds light on the beauty and tension of living out biblical principles in a modern world.

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EP 20Jan 15 · 1H 20M

Ballers vs Builders: Love, Money, Dating and Marriage

In this candid and thought-provoking episode, PF dives deep into the misconceptions and challenges surrounding marriage in today’s world, particularly within the West African community. From the dangers of prioritizing material wealth over character to the spiritual and practical wisdom required for a successful marriage, this discussion unpacks the truths often overlooked in the pursuit of ‘the perfect spouse.’ Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers invaluable insights t

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EP 19Jan 8 · 1H 03M

Rethinking Faith: Forgiveness, Righteousness, and Grace in 2025

Happy New Year! PF Unfiltered kicks off 2025 with a deep dive into faith, forgiveness, and salvation. Is salvation permanent? Are we saved by works or grace? What does it mean to truly abide in Christ? Join us as we unpack these questions, challenge religious mindsets, and explore the freedom that comes with living by grace. This episode is all about renewing your mind, reevaluating your faith, and embracing God’s love in the new year.

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EP 18Dec 31 · 1H 09M

Faith, Gifts, and Growth: Embracing God’s Purpose in 2025

What does it mean to walk in faith and operate in spiritual gifts? In this episode, we discuss reflections on 2024, aspirations for 2025, and the importance of cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. With humor, honesty, and scripture-based insights, we explore spiritual gifts, prayer, and practical ways to align with God’s purpose as we step into the new year.

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EP 17Dec 24 · 58 MIN

Christmas Reflections: Faith, Family, and Friendship

In this heartfelt episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the joys and challenges of the Christmas season. We explore the beauty and complexity of friendships—how they evolve over time, the value of inter-generational relationships, and the lessons learned from conflict and reconciliation. Plus, we discuss the importance of building authentic community, embracing our humanity, and developing a deeper, more personal friendship with God.

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EP 16Dec 17 · 58 MIN

Finding Peace in a Hustle Culture

In a world that glorifies hustle and busyness, how do we make room for rest? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF and Esther dive deep into what true rest looks like – not just for your body, but for your mind and soul. They explore why trusting God is central to experiencing real rest and how worrying can keep us trapped in a cycle of exhaustion. From personal stories to practical insights (including PF’s surprising love for baking), this conversation will challenge you to rethink how you appro

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EP 15Dec 2 · 1H 03M

Trusting God in the Valley with Luke Brendling

In this heartfelt episode, PF sits down with Luke Brendling, an international preacher, to discuss grief, faith, and finding hope in the valleys of life. Luke shares his journey through the loss of his daughter, how he and his wife leaned on God and each other, and the lessons learned through pain. This conversation is a reminder that even in life’s hardest moments, God’s love sustains us and offers peace in the storm. Tune in for encouragement and practical wisdom for navigating life’s challeng

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EP 14Nov 25 · 53 MIN

Forgiveness Unfiltered: The Power of Letting Go

In this unfiltered conversation, we tackle the tough topic of forgiveness—what it truly means, how to navigate boundaries, and how Christ’s example shapes our actions. Real, raw, and practical, this episode dives into grace, restoration, and living out forgiveness in the face of hurt.

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EP 13Nov 18 · 50 MIN

Why Does God Allow Pain? Processing Grief as a Believer

Grief is a universal experience, yet it hits each of us differently. In this heartfelt episode, PF and the team delve into personal stories of loss, wrestling with questions about God’s goodness during pain, and finding comfort in faith. Whether you’ve experienced the loss of a loved one, a dream, or are walking with someone grieving, this conversation offers empathy, perspective, and hope. Tune in and be encouraged to lean on God and your community.

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EP 12Aug 10 · 49 MIN

Your Questions, PF's Unfiltered Truth

In this revealing season finale Q&A, PF tackles your toughest questions head-on. From challenging the notion of earthly ambitions to exploring the true meaning of happiness, this episode offers a raw and unfiltered look at what really matters in light of eternity. Don't miss this intimate glimpse into PF's personal reflections as we wrap up Season 1!

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EP 11Aug 3 · 46 MIN

Love Unfiltered: Breaking Free from Religious Chains

Dive deep into the heart of Christian love as PF and the crew tackle the challenging standards set in 1 Corinthians 13. In this raw and honest episode, they confront the gap between the ideal of love and the reality of our daily lives. Discover why striving harder isn't the answer and how grace through Christ is the key to experiencing true love and freedom. Whether you're feeling trapped by religious rules or struggling to live up to impossible standards, this unfiltered conversation offers a fresh perspective on finding peace and joy in your faith journey.

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EP 10Jul 26 · 54 MIN

Generational Reset: Unlearning Parental Patterns

In this episode, PF and the crew tackle the complex world of parenting across generations. From strict Nigerian upbringings to modern challenges, they explore how cultural norms shape our approach to raising children and our own self-worth. Whether you're a parent, hoping to become one, or simply reflecting on your own upbringing, this episode offers powerful insights on fostering confidence, contentment, and genuine relationships in the next generation.

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EP 9Jul 19 · 43 MIN

Unmasking Misinterpreted Scriptures

Dive into a thought-provoking exploration of commonly misunderstood Bible verses with PF and the crew. In this unfiltered episode, we peel back layers of popular scriptures to reveal their true meanings in context. From challenging the idea that Christianity should be a constant struggle to examining the dangers of transactional faith, we tackle misconceptions head-on. Whether you're a seasoned Bible scholar or just starting your faith journey, this episode promises to challenge your perspective

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EP 7Jul 5 · 44 MIN

Is the Bible Truly the Word of God?

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF, Tunde, and Seun tackle the profound question: Is the Bible truly the Word of God? PF shares personal insights on faith, the purpose of our relationship with God, and the Bible’s role in our spiritual journey. They explore misconceptions around comfort and spiritual disciplines, challenging listeners to reflect on their own faith. Are we seeking a genuine relationship with Christ, or just checking boxes? Join this engaging conversation to redefine your unders

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EP 6Jun 28 · 36 MIN

Faith or Fear? Unpacking the True Nature of Faith

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF delves into the essence of faith, addressing the question: Are we truly living by faith or merely masking our fear as faith? This conversation will challenge you to reflect on your own faith journey and encourage you to deepen your relationship with God. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts with us on social media!

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EP 5Jun 14 · 41 MIN

Breaking the Chains of Fear

In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive deep into the topic of fear and its impact on our lives. Join us as we explore the nature of fear, its causes, and how it can both motivate and deter us. PF shares personal anecdotes and biblical insights, offering a fresh perspective on how to confront and overcome fear. We discuss the importance of trusting God’s plan and understanding the finished work of Christ to truly break free from the chains of fear. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that

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EP 4Jun 8 · 43 MIN

Secularism in the Church: Finding the Right Balance

Join us in this thought-provoking episode as PF delves into the often debated topic of secularism in the church. We explore the impact of secular music, media, and activities on our spiritual journey and discuss how to find a balance between enjoying the world’s offerings and maintaining a strong, sincere relationship with God. Tune in to gain insights on how to navigate these influences without compromising your faith. 🎵🌍🕊️

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EP 3May 31 · 52 MIN

Money Matters: Faith, Wealth, and Authentic Living

In this candid episode of PF Unfiltered, PF tackles the complex topics of wealth, faith, and authenticity in the church. He shares personal insights and addresses misconceptions about money in ministry, offering a balanced perspective on stewardship and generosity. Whether you're curious about the prosperity gospel or seeking guidance on faith and finances, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and real-life applications.

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EP 2May 26 · 53 MIN

Pastors, Money, and Misconceptions

PF tackles one of the most polarizing topics in the church: the relationship between pastors and money. Addressing common misconceptions, PF discusses why wealth and faith are not mutually exclusive, the true meaning of prosperity, and the human side of pastoral leadership. Delve into candid conversations about societal expectations, the prosperity gospel, and the balance between material success and spiritual integrity. Join us for a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges stereotypes and of

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EP 1May 26 · 41 MIN

The Weight of the Cross

In this episode of “PF Unfiltered,” PF delves into the importance of authenticity in spiritual leadership. He shares his journey, discussing the balance between being real and fulfilling pastoral duties. We explore mental health, faith, and the true essence of being a pastor. Tune in for unfiltered conversations that reveal the human side of spiritual leadership and offer practical insights for navigating life. 🌍🗣️📖

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